Mr. Jay Paul

So I recently was told that I never finished the blogs for each one of my family members. I only got to Ian. So moving down the line of siblings that brings me to Jay Paul.

The back story on Jay:
Jay came into our lives at 23 hours old from Rice Lake Wisconsin. He was our new foster baby that our family got to have. Well to make a long story short, his birth father was in jail and his birth mother was a drug whore. She smoke and drank and did crank, a form of meth, while pregnant with Jay. She was just a wreck and didn't deserve to even be called a mother for what she did to him. Because of the drugs he went through withdrawal for the first 6 months, it was hell for the kid and for us. Also the drugs completely destroyed his digestive tract leaving him to not eat anything with protein or dairy in it. We soon learned that he was also blind, but after 5 months he got his vision back, almost a miracle (he'll tell you he is a miracle). He also had rage issues where he would get super mad and get tense. All the doctors at mayo didn't think he would live long, and he was the first admitted meth baby in the state of Wisconsin. The state also deemed him special needs. This made it harder for any family that wanted to adopt him. Well after a few adoptive families came and met Jay and turned him down as he got older and older, he became part of the family. We were the only family he had ever known and was calling us mom and dad. So after talking we decided that we would adopt Mr. Jay Paul and he would be come an official Lux.
(Jay thought my digital camera was amazing and we had fun goofing around)
Ever since Jay has come to our house he and I have had a connection. We are attached at the hip. To the point where he and I look so much like each other, people don't realize he is adopted. They actually think Ian my biological brother is the adopted one. My own dad can't tell who is who in the baby pictures. He is a very smart kid, even at the age of 8 he knows a lot. He's a math genius but also can make friends with anyone. When I was home for Christmas he would say things that I remember saying at his age. My mom would give me the look saying I wonder who he got that from. Even though we are 13 years apart we are still bestest buddies. He always would ask for kisses and then wipe them off, this lead to the saying, "sister kisses are there forever." He still wipes my kisses off to this day and gives me the grin that could get him out of anything. I love him to death and am so happy to have him in my life and proud to say that he's my brother.


Next time it's the Birthday Girl a.k.a Mom Dogg Momma Lux or what I call her my mom.



Love and peace to you all....