Saturday, August 22, 2009

Marriage Woes

Since Aubrey is in Wisconsin for a wedding I thought I would give you my two cents on marriage. The guy getting married was questioning the relationship and had decided that she wasn't the one. She was trying to change him and was angry when the process wasn't working. He had decided to leave the relationship when she discovered she was pregnant. Now a year after their sweet daughter was born, they are getting married. So now my two cents! Why do women try to change the man in their relationship. It never works!! If he is an ass, cares more for his friends and doesn't put you first in his life DUMP HIM! You can't change anyone but yourself. So now our friend is entering into marriage for the little girl. Hello, that nevers works either. So five years from now, maybe with another child, he will realize that it isn't working and leave. Oh that's much better than calling off the wedding now! If I can give any advice from my life lessons it would be always live your truth! Yes, you need to be kind to others, but don't compromise yourself to be in a relationship. And always remember the only change you can get from your significant other is to maybe get him to change is underware!

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