Thoughts

::when a chance at love arises- do not pass it up. the fear of heart break is a minor character in the play of love. and the pain that fuels the fear is only a measure of the purity and validity of the love itself.
::one best friend. true friend. means more than a multitude of followers. find someone rare, that makes you question society and the world and ask questions like " why is this " and "why is that". find that - and hold on for dear life.
::people don't know whats best for them. period. so don't tell them! regardless of the knowledge you posses on the given subject - stop. they need to be self taught. we all are self taught.
::true love does not alter. but you can move on, and you can have more than one true love. that's the beauty in it.
::count your winnings ( don't dwell on the losses ) and walk. don't look back. don't let the past even five minutes have the potential to ruin your present and future.
::society's rules are only upheld in that given society. the world if full of people and societies that will accept and appreciate your supposed " social awkwardness" , and irrational way of life.
::don't let others ruin your own life experiences. they are yours to judge and cherish as you please. don't let somebody take that away from you.
::keep learning. Loneliness is not a problem when you are nose deep in a book / invested in learning.
::if you lie, make it right. whether it be telling the truth in the end, or justifying the lie.
::the truth causes more problems, dually noted, fully experienced- yes. but the reputation of being truthfully blunt means more in the end.
::if you begin to doubt a relationship with someone, and they continue to make you doubt it - drop it. maybe for a couple days, maybe for a year - get a clear head and think about what that person means. and just hope you mean enough for them to change.
::don't let someone else determine your feelings towards them or anyone / anything else. that's your right.
::trust.
::sometimes you need to be the person that is going to stay and help out somebody who keeps repeating their mistakes. All anybody needs is the feeling that there will always be someone to go to , no matter what, and that can make anybody change their ways.
::take into account peoples past experiences when passing judgment. there is something to be said for chosen ignorance , and lack of opportunity or experience. there is no need to punish somebody who truly does not know better... teach them.
::the longest answer on a multiple choice test is always the correct answer. who would take the time to write that whole long answer if it isn't correct ?
::positive thinking can not only make you feel better, but make others feel better as well. all anybody needs is a little ray of hope - so give that to them.
::every person is fighting their own kind of battle - take that into account when confronting them.