My new best friend...that I don't know of

After that last post I had made I felt great getting that off of my chest. But there were other people out there who seemed to have the need to argue with me about my opinons. Well I then saw this comment from someone. I have no idea who this person is, I asked the people who I know who normally read my blog but none of them wrote it, all thought that it was a great comment. So here is the comment....

Anonymous said...

Alright Aubs. A comment, all for you.

First and foremost, I've noted that some girls do this. They stay with their boyfriend as long as they can, then break up with him as soon as there is another potential guy waiting. The deal with her not wanting to tell "Nate" was that she could possibly use him as a backup if they current situation (with this new guy "Putz?") didn't work. I've seen this enough, and sadly using the "bail method" rarely works.

Although, she may claim that she's fine, and that there was nothing between her and this first guy (Mike?), but in essense, she's had it planned all out to date someone else.

It's not inevitable what happened. Also, people are able to read one another easier than some can hide. Why should someone need to mask their emotions and keep them in the dark from everyone? Wouldn't it be easier if things were out in the open?

You were fine telling "Nate" the details, since he has obviously noted something, and he needed to know. It must have been harder than imagined to hide the breakup, and he felt that he needed to know rather than making a judgement. (Amazing an interested/concerned guy will ask rather than make his move.)

Also, (even though I'm not sure with the relationship between "Nate" and "Erica", but I'm guessing) that he was concerned. Maybe he felt the need to comfort her that they had broken up. No one likes to find out three months later than they had broken up with their boyfriend/girlfriend.

As I sat and analyzed, I've realized more girls are beginning to turn this way. But this is what I see. It's not like my opinion would matter, but indeed, something needs to be voiced. Right on for free speech.

7:32 PM

Whoever wrote that I must say that it made my day. It was a perfect reaction to my blog and it shows that I am not the only one out there who feels this is wrong in how to treat people. If you'd like to e-mail me and let me know who you are that'd be great because I just want to tell you mucho gracias. I'll keep you all updated on who it is and if they want to be let out what thir real name is.